Jennifer Lopez spoke with the October issue of Elle magazine about motherhood, and her not so secret pregnancy she finally confirmed during the final weeks of the El Cantante Tour concert in November 2007. “While pregnant, we came off tour and I said [to Anthony], ‘I did the superwoman thing, I finished the tour — now I need you to take care of me. I love doing things for you; if I’m not cooking, then I’m picking out a shirt,’” Lopez explained. “‘But this is the first time in my life where I’m just going to be a little bit selfish. I don’t know if I’m going to have kids again, so I want it to be a beautiful experience. I don’t want to have any drama. I want to just be smiling every day.’” Check out more details and pictures at elle.com.