The New York Post reports Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are getting help from J.Lo’s mother Guadalupe to stick together. Two weeks ago, after the diva gave Ben his walking papers for gambling, Guadalupe stepped in. “Guadalupe loves Ben,” one spy said. “She thinks the sun rises and sets on him. Anytime Jennifer has doubts, her mother lets loose on her and tells her Ben is just the best thing that ever happened to her.” Guadalupe’s favorite thing about Affleck apparently is the attention and presents he lavishes on her. “Ben buys Guadalupe cars, jewelry, trips – anything she wants,” spies revealed.