Univision is reporting that Jennifer Lopez’s handlers insisted to reporters during her time in Puerto Rico that she’s not to be asked questions concerning her thoughts on the terrorist activity in the United States on September 11. While scores of other artists have offered condolences and their feelings of grief and outrage, Lopez appears to be taking a role of neutrality, for reasons unknown.

Also, when asked about her relationship with fiance Cris Judd Lopez responded, “I don’t talk about my personal life.”

The Enquirer’s Mike Walker reports just after receiving engagement gifts at her party with Cris Judd, Jennifer Lopez spend the next two days returning many of the items for cash or store credit.

MSNBC’s Jeannette Walls is reporting that a music insider thinks Jennifer Lopez complained about the Triumph comment thus removing the offending remark from rebroadcasts. Says the source, “I can’t imagine MTV had a temporary attack of good taste, J. Lo must have complained.” MTV and Lopez’s people refused comment.

Jeannette Walls column today has a pretty funny look at the efforts and troubles reporters have on the red carpet of the MTV Video Music Awards.

Apparently Access Hollywood is pretty stingy with working space at these type of events, and Jeannette was proud of herself for getting J.Lo to wave to her.

The Enquirer is reporting on a Mariah-like breakdown Jennifer Lopez had on the set of an NBC studio ahead of her special on the network in November.

Lopez reportedly ‘lost it’ while on a cell phone following a series of calls. Lopez, according to a witness, told the person on the other end, “Will you please just listen to me!” Afterwards, Lopez broke down in tears and boyfriend Cris Judd followed her outside to comfort her. Apparently stress is getting to Lopez as she juggles her TV special, a wedding, and a full schedule of movies to shoot.

An insider said, “Cris is J. Lo’s biggest fan and supporter and even he desperately wants her to slow down. He is afraid that if she continues to work this hard, she could have a full-scale breakdown like Mariah.”