Friends Have Mixed Thoughts On Jen And Ben Wedding
Pals of Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are weighing in to Star magazine on whether their engagement can survive Ben’s alleged oral sex with a Vancouver stripper. A J.Lo galpal remarked, “A little touching, a little feeling, a little licking may have happened, but there was NO sex.” Still, others insist trouble is there. “Jen’s mom, Lupe is furious. She says it’s a matter of family pride and dignity,” another pal remarked. Another added, “No one thought Ben was capable of a betrayal like this. Her close friends and family are reeling — and I don’t think they would attend a wedding if it took place now!”
They need to rethink about their pending marriage…both are still very selfish people especially regarding their careers…there is no room right now for a family life. it takes serious commitment and they don’t have the time or the commitment to make a marriage work. they’re living a fantasy life, like one of their movie roles.
This is an obvious publicity stunt to stir interest in their wedding.
I don’t think they’ll get married at all. I’m still not even sure if their whole relationship was a publicity stunt.
My thoughts: Ben deliberately caused the stripper scandal. Wedding getting close and he’s unsure of his and her feelings. It appears she calls her ex hubby and Diddy when she’s in trouble with Ben. Why can’t she let these exes go already? All those awful things he did at the Slater house. My guess he loaded himself up with cocaine and went all out with the girls. I think Jen cares for him but lately he’s done things to her that would make any woman run from such a relationship.
It’s pretty clear that Ben’s not ready to settle down. And if he and Jennifer DO go through with it, she’s going to have to realize that he WILL cheat on her, he WILL be sneaky about it, and things will NOT be happily-ever-after for them. Seems like she wants to block it out of her mind and overlook the bad stuff Ben’s done.